Please RSVP no later than February 9, 2024.

All of our RSVPs are online here on this site. Tap on the "RSVP" button on the homepage of this site to register. We have also mailed out paper invites with QR codes to take you through the same online process.

Yes. Please register your guest during the RSVP process online.

Our wedding events are for adults only. We look forward to celebrating with you! Kick your shoes off and enjoy a relaxing, kid-free evening with us.

Typically the sun sets around 6:15pm PST early March. This means we should be able to see the sun set in Napa while at the Wedding Reception at Ashes & Diamonds.

In March, the average temperature in Napa is 54° F (12° C) degrees, with an average high of 68° F (19° C), and an average low of 41° F (5° C).

Be sure to bring a warm jacket, cooler layers, layer-able outfits, sunscreen, and comfortable shoes.

There is no commercial airline service into, or out of the Napa County Airport. For commercial airline services, the closest airports from Napa are Sonoma County (Santa Rosa), Oakland International, Sacramento International, and San Francisco International (SFO). If you are flying from the East Coast or from Canada, you will most likely be flying into SFO.

Downtown Napa is approximately 1 hour and 20 minutes from the San Francisco Airport (SFO).

The best way to get from the San Francisco Airport to downtown Napa is to take an Uber or Lyft. The average price for this trip is $115 USD. As most of you are traveling from San Francisco or SFO to Napa, we encourage you to connect with one another to carpool.

We have several hotels and inns in walking distance to the Welcome Party and After Party locations on the "Travel" page of this website. The closest are Archer Hotel Napa and Andaz Napa - a Concept by Hyatt. Tip: Use the "20% off offer" found on the Archer Hotel homepage to get a discount on your stay! This discount only works if you have a US Number.

The Wedding Reception and After Party dress code is Formal / Cocktail attire. We suggest dressing in Cocktail or Dressy Casual attire for the Welcome Party and Send-Off Party.

Our theme for the Wedding Reception and After Party is black and sparkly (together). There is no theme for the Welcome Party or Send-Off Party.

We suggest you arrive at 4:00 pm at Ashes & Diamonds. If you are taking advantage of the charter buses provided, the buses will pick you up at the Archer Hotel in downtown Napa at 3:30 pm and drop you off around this time. If you are driving or taking ride-share, we suggest you arrive well before Spoken Words begins at 4:30 pm.

Ashes & Diamonds Winery is about a 10-minute drive from downtown Napa.

Yes. We have arranged for a charter bus to pick up all guests from the Archer Hotel in downtown Napa at 3:30 pm and bring you to Ashes & Diamonds before the Wedding Reception begins. Buses will be available at Ashes & Diamonds at 8:00 pm to bring guests back to downtown Napa, dropping you off just in front of Cadet Beer + Wine Bar for the After Party.

There is no traditional wedding ceremony at the Wedding Reception. However, Jonathan and Tom will be exchanging words at 4:30 pm at Ashes & Diamonds, which will be followed by a toast by members of their family.

Yes, there is parking at Ashes & Diamonds. However, we strongly suggest using the charter buses provided or ride-sharing, especially if you intend to drink.

Yes. A small selection of beer (Pilsner & IPA) and non-alcoholic beverages (Ollipop Vintage Cola & Ollipop Ginger Lime) will be served at Ashes & Diamonds in addition to white, red, and rose wine. Ashes & Diamonds will not be a full bar and therefore will not have spirits to serve. There will be a full bar at the After Party at Cadet Wine + Beer Bar.

Yes. We are serving heavy appetizers in addition to cheese & charcuterie at the Wedding Reception at Ashes & Diamonds. Cake and cupcakes from Susie Cakes and coffee, espresso drinks, and tea will follow from Cafe Apae.

Yes. We have already planned for vegetarian and gluten-free options as part of our menus at the wedding events. Please make sure to note any specific allergies or dietary restrictions when you RSVP, and we will do our best to accommodate these.

Yes. While Ashes & Diamonds has a fantastic outside area, which will be equipped with heat lamps, there is an indoor heated area, which guests will have access during the event. Blankets and a fire pit are also options for those wishing to remain outside. We strongly suggest you bring a jacket, throw, or sweater to enjoy the outdoors.

Yes. We will have charter buses at Ashes & Diamonds at 8:00 pm to take you from the winery to the After Party location, Cadet Beer + Wine Bar. The bus will drop you off on Franklin Street just in front of the alley to Cadet. Cadet Beer + Wine bar is 3-5 minutes walking distance from most hotels in downtown Napa.

Yes. The Wedding After Party takes place at Cadet Beer + Wine Bar, which will be mainly indoors. The venue also has a fantastic patio and alley, which will be equipped with heat lamps for those who want to head outdoors to eat or mingle under the Napa stars.

Yes. Cadet Beer + Wine Bar will have full open bar including cocktails, wine, champagne, beer, spirits, and non-alcoholic beverages.

Yes. We will be serving snacks at the bar. Butter's Burgers' food truck will also be serving smash burgers, vegan burgers, grilled cheese sandwiches, fries, and tater tots from around 9:00 pm until midnight.

Unfortunately not. But we suggest you carpool to reduce the cost to get from downtown Napa to San Francisco to join us at the gallery. A ride-share trip will be approximately $115 USD.

Napa is about 50 miles from San Francisco and takes just over an hour to get there by car.

No cars or ride-share vehicles are allowed on the stretch of Market Street which Jonathan Carver Moore is located. We suggest you use 33 Turk Street (or The LINE San Francisco) as your destination for drop-off. You will be dropped off behind the gallery on Turk Street. Walk around the corner to the gallery entrance on Market Street.

Yes there is. You can park at the 6X6 indoor parking garage located across from the gallery at 945 Market St, San Francisco. You will want to enter the garage at 440 Stevenson Street. The cost to park is 30 Mins $2.00 ; 1 Hour $4.00 ; Early Bird $16.00 ; Max $36.00 ; Evening $12.00. All prices are in USD.

Yes. The Send-Off Party is located in the same building as The LINE San Francisco. We have arranged a discount for you. Please use the code "GETHERE" when you book your room.

Your presence at our wedding celebration is the greatest gift we could ask for! If you want to honor us with a gift, we will have a place for gifts & cards in the Tasting Room at Ashes & Diamonds.

We do not have a registry.

Yes! Check out the "Things to Do" page of this website for a ton of recommendations in Napa, San Francisco, and surrounding areas.

Yes! Please do and tag us @tomemrich and @mrsocialbutterfly if you are sharing them on Instagram.

We've got you! Email Tom at tom@tomemrich.com.